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Receiving to the root of discontent - happiness


Many colonize live in clutter, emotionally eat themselves into overweight, live in debt, hate their jobs and if not live depressed lives, powerless and seemingly unwilling to change. Why? What do these have in common? What is the core issue?

Fear, or fairly an lack of love.

Fear, and not hate, is the "dark side" or opposite/absence of love, the way darkness is the opposite/absence of light.

Whether your self image is illicit by unhealthy or abandoned flabby or extreme perfection, both stem from fear. In the first, food is used to comfort upset emotions and to flee into - a true alone that never lets you down. In the final (and every so often the former), check over the body supplants a loss of check in another place in life, in the long run compelling over that life.

Clutter is just about constantly fear-based - fear of not having a touch and needing it, fear of receiving rid of a touch important, fear of leave-taking oneself open to new experiences (which can't come in for the reason that your house - and by addition your life - is before now full) and fear of being alone with oneself and one's feelings (clutter requires so much of our energy to deal with and work around, it can serve as a sort of mental static to keep us too busy to think about critical things).

Debt is a further symptom of fear - associates get into debt for many fear-based reasons (like needing stuff to make themselves feel better, or for fear of not maintenance up with the Jones' and being socially outcast). A new part to this equation is that many colonize will not get rid of their admission to accept (cut up cards, etc) since there is at all times that "what if an urgent situation happens and we don't have cash on hand to pay for it?" which is made moot by the fact that most of their belief cards are maxed out anyway. Debt is also a symptom of the fear of doing without, even when agreed to extremes. The fear of going lacking and the feelings of "being without" fancy clothes or exclusive meals out is no less than the fear and come across of going exclusive of basic clothing and food, even if the authenticity is different.

Working at a job you hate is nonentity but fear - fear of not having enough, fear of quitting and not being able to find other work (or decision it and being stuck with amazing even worse), fear of not being to keep up with your "stuff habit" or your debt, fear of failure, fear of success, fear of relying on yourself, fear of doing equipment another way or out-of-the-box (running your own business, consecutively off to Mexico, etc), fear of leasing the ancestors down, fear of "wasting" your education, fear of what other will say, think, fear that your mom/dad/sister/evil art coach were right and so on.

Fear is the basis for appealing much all human suffering, not including artless disasters and other acts of God. And the contradictory of fear is love. Love creates an ecosphere of calm and plenty, as you know there is a sufficient amount (if only just enough) and so feel no need to "get mine ahead of a big shot else does. " Nor do you feel the need to hoard (clutter) or arrange in more than you can give (debt) to declare physically of plenty. In a world of love, all are customary and loved for their own not public strengths and forgiven their faults, for that reason opposing the need for drowning in the comfort of stuff and food (debt and overweight), or distressing about what others will think if you quit your job to befall a Mexican depiction artist (toxic job). And on and on.

Learn to live with love, for manually and for others, even when they don't meet your values (even the rich and awful deserve your love, for they serve their purpose, too). Creating a world of love is up to each of us. We cannot wait to see if others take the first step. They are coming up for us.

(c) Soni Pitts


Soni Pitts is the Chief Far-seeing Butt-Kicker of SoniPitts. Com. She specializes in portion others reclaim "soul proprietorship" in their lives and to begin active the life their Initiator continually anticipated for them.

She is the creator of the free e-book "50 Ways To Reach Your Goals" and over 100 self-help and encouraging articles, as well as other food and income deliberate to facilitate this course of own cyst and spiritual development.


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Forget What You Think Happiness Is  The Wall Street Journal

Sustaining Happiness  Lehigh University News

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